After middle age, "three values" are more important than facial features.

when one reaches middle age, one's life is half-steep.

Huafa is latent, the folds are dark and long, and there is no longer a fresh face.

the energy is declining, there are many thoughts, and life can only move forward with a heavy load.

however, getting rid of the youth and polishing the rashness, middle age is not the best age in life.

after the baptism of time, wisdom and sobriety, maturity and stability.

I have met many people, traveled many ways, and gradually understood the nature of life.

after middle age, "three values" are more important than facial features.

in addition to world outlook, outlook on life and values, I also summed up the following "three values" and shared them with my friends.

01

Age view: if the heart is not old, the years will not hurt

Director Wang Chaoge has a famous speech, which feels deeply every time.

"12 years is a reincarnation. At the age of 36, family, work and life tend to be stable, and people are completely divided into two types:

one is to repeat the age of 36; the other is to start looking for a new life.

most people die at the age of 36, not physical death, but tiredness, anxiety, silence, and no desire for life. "

in the second half of life, more and more is age, less and less is courage.

too many people use age to "frame" themselves, do not dare to try new things, and gradually lose their enthusiasm for life.

I feel that when people reach a certain age, they can only bow and wait for death, and there is no way to turn around from the bottom of life.

on the other hand, some people, however, have never been limited by age in their imagination of life, and have been living a steaming life.

Art Master Huang Yongyu is called "the real version of Zhou Botong".

learn driver's license at the age of 50, study abroad at the age of 70, shoot the cover at the age of 80, in his 90s, and drive a domineering red Ferrari.

in the opinion of others, he should have spent his life a long time ago, but he broke through all the way, playing more and more happily.

when he was 90 years old, Father Huang also painted a self-portrait and happily called himself the "post-90s".

I like Dou Wentao's sentence very much:

time wrinkles the face, but as long as one is enthusiastic, he will always be young.

Uncle Beijing drifters, 49, who attended International Fashion week at 80, said

Grandma Moses, who studied painting at 76 and appeared in time magazine at 93, also had a famous saying:

"Life never starts too late."

the really advanced age view is that no matter how old you are, you are passionate about life, curious about things, and always have the courage to start from scratch.

in the movie Twenty again, grandma Shen Lijun, 70, regained her 20-year-old appearance by chance.

remembering the vagrancy and hardship all her life, she decided to be herself again.

playing in bands, falling in love, and chasing dreams, she lived like she could not have imagined at the age of 20 she had stolen.

Life is not a movie, and you can't turn back time.

but this does not prevent us from living every moment and constantly injecting surprises into our lives.

if the heart is young, every day is a golden age, and every moment can sway.

02

Health concept: in the middle of life, learn to recognize

"round table" program, talk about the topic of "age".

I was deeply impressed by the words of a guest:

"once a person gets older, the body has obviously felt the change.

you begin to admire the energy of young people, and sometimes you have to bow to age. "

when people reach middle age, all kinds of physical abilities are inadequate, and the people around them come and go capriciously, all reminding us:

Life is an one-way ticket with no return. In the second half of life, you and I fight for health.

some netizens have shared an experience.

after more than ten years in the industry, he has been the most hardworking person in the company, and it is common for him to stay up late for projects.

once, after staying up all night for a week, he suddenly blinded and fainted in his bathroom.

thanks to the timely rescue, he was lucky to save his life from the dead.

when he woke up, he saw his tearful mother and red-eyed father, and a wave of guilt welled up in his heart.

when he came back from the hospital, he laid down the rule that he must sleep before the wee hours of the morning, found his dusty fitness card and signed up for a private class.

the rich red sauce that I used to like seldom appeared on the dinner table, and my friend's wine bureau could also push it.

in the middle of my life, the best health product is "recognition".

to learn to "recognize pussy" is not cowardice, but to understand that no matter how many achievements of fame and wealth, it is better to live well.

Zhihu has a question: what kind of investment is profitable?

there is a highly praised answer:

"first, keep a good body;

second, really want to raise a good body, it is your greatest capital;

third, have a chance to do something else.

A good health can keep your family from getting into a dilemma because of an illness, so that you can stay with your family for a long time, and let us have the strength to compete with difficulties at any time.

as the saying goes, "you must be full of energy to withstand the difficulties of the world."

in the second half of life, keeping the body disease-free and mind-free is an eternal topic.

Life doesn't always come and go. In every ordinary day, learn to be kind to yourself.

03

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Outlook on life: the material is simple, the heart is rich

there is a passage in "living simply and beautifully":

"the more things you want, the less satisfied your heart is. Even if you finally get everything you want, you will feel depressed.

things that are supposed to bring you happiness have become the source of stress and cast a haze on your mind. "

in the middle of my life, after experiencing how much noise and being bound by desire, I just realized:

the best state of life is simplicity and simplicity.

when I read Lin Qingxuan's story, I was deeply moved by his sentence "the taste of the world is Qinghuan".

when he was young, he was so famous in Taiwan's literary world that he won almost all the awards in Taiwan's literary circles before the age of 30.

living with newspapers, journalists, lights and applause all day long, although it is beautiful, it is not happy.

when his career reached its peak, he resolutely quit all his jobs and went to the mountain to study in isolation, cutting off all contact with the outside world.

although life in the mountains is hard, he enjoys himself.

far away from the secular planning, he reached a new peak of creation.

I like the saying

try to get rid of those hoarding things, give up all kinds of desires, and get rid of the unimportant people in the circle.

cultivate hobbies that have nothing to do with utilitarianism, learn skills that have long wanted to test the waters:

to travel, measure the world with footsteps, and collect beauty with a camera;

to read books, savor all aspects of life in books, collide with the author's thoughts;

think and learn to talk to your soul in solitude.

teacher Dazeng wrote a limerick, which was thought-provoking:

the true meaning of life, after all, lies not in the material, but in the thickness of the heart.

living here disturbs the world one after another, cutting down the complexity and simplification makes it easy and at ease, and the soul is rich and comfortable.

04

as the saying goes, it is the road that goes longer and longer, and what becomes clearer and brighter is wisdom.

have an advanced age view, dare to try, dare to love, let it go, there is no time in my heart.

develop a correct concept of health, learn to recognize, nourish the body and mind, and better balance with the impermanence of life.

keep the minimalist view of life, realize the truth of life and enrich your heart in a pure life.

the rest of my life is not long, take your eyes back to yourself, listen to your inner voice, and develop a good "three values".

in this way, you can be happy physically and mentally, and be safe both inside and outside.

share with my friends.