Don't mess with people who are too idle.

01

since the media man @ Susie told a story.

near Susie's neighborhood, a girl slit her wrists and committed suicide.

the reason why a girl has a decent job and a returnee boyfriend who is on the marriage agenda is really lamentable.

once, the girl clashed with the cleaner. Because the cleaner made rude remarks, the girl hired someone to work as a cleaner.

the son of a cleaner who works in the same company went to talk to a girl and was fired.

in this way, the girl made a feud with the mother and son.

later, the girl used all her savings to buy a high-rise house. coincidentally, the mother and son moved in because of demolition, and became neighbors upstairs and downstairs.

because of sudden wealth, mother and son stopped going to work and stayed at home all day playing mahjong.

from then on, girls' nightmares began.

rotten eggs, moldy fruit, and all kinds of smelly rubbish are thrown on the patio.

every night in the middle of the night, people start to shoot basketball upstairs, so noisy that they can't sleep at all.

the woman went to the property and called the police, but all came to nothing in return for the aggravation of the mother and son.

as a last resort, the girl had to move out to rent a house and then thought of selling the house.

but every time someone comes to see the house, the mother and son stand on her doorstep and shout abuse, saying bluntly that there is a feud between the two families, and who dares to buy this house will make someone miserable all his life, and the buyer will flee.

later, the son of the cleaner upstairs spread a rumor that the girl was out of order and had had an abortion before. as a result, the word spread to the girl's expectant mother-in-law, who was forced to break up with her boyfriend under the pressure of the prospective mother-in-law.

after being lovelorn, girls have a nervous breakdown and often drown their sorrows by drinking. As a result, they accidentally screw up their work, resulting in heavy losses to the company and being fired.

in the middle of the night, the girl with a nervous breakdown went to find the mother and son with a knife. After smashing the door for a long time, there was no movement inside. Under impulse, the woman cut her wrist, fell in the elevator, and never woke up.

as Nietzsche said in the other side of good and Evil, "if you struggle with an evil dragon for too long, you will become an evil dragon yourself." If you stare at the abyss for too long, the abyss will come back to gaze. "

you can't compete with a man who has nothing to do.

if you compete with people who are too idle, you will always be a loser.

02

in Cai Gentan, it is said: "if life is too idle, don't try to steal it."

the implication is that there are too many people who are too idle.

writer Su Xin worked in the Union Hall many years ago, with fewer people and more work, and everyone was very busy every day.

there is only one position in the hall responsible for collecting and collating materials, which is easy. In that position, he is the relative of the boss.

H is too idle at work, so he likes to ask for trouble and make trouble all day, and everyone in the hall has been bullied by her.

she hates others the most. If anyone is to work more actively and work harder, she will sneer and say, "you work so hard and have a lot of ambition. You want to replace someone."

if you dare to argue with her, she will be able to argue with you every day until you throw in the towel.

once, a new employee was ridiculed by H and immediately turned back.

this can stir up a hornet's nest, H has been relentless, several days in front of the newcomer to reason, saying that she is not sensible, so that people can not work, and finally had to apologize to H.

the sister of writer Li Yue has experienced a similar experience.

I found a good job with good income and stable leisure, but then I had an accident when I was idle.

she says that she is fine when she is free. She can read professional books, take several exams, and then learn some other skills.

but when everyone is free, trouble comes.

everyone has nothing to do all day, with all eyes fixed on her and judging.

those idle people just don't like the way she works alone and have to pull her down together.

idle people will also gang up to form several small groups with complex relationships. If you want to be alone, if you don't help each other, everyone will crowd you out.

finally, Li Yue's sister decided to stay away from those idle people and resigned resolutely.

Maria Robinson said: "No one can go back and start anew, but everyone can create a new future from the present."

being with people who are too idle is a disaster.

so you must stay away from idle people who have nothing to pursue.

when you jump out of that quagmire, you can move on to a higher level of life.

03

I once encountered something because of renting a house.

the overall design of the house is not very good, the lighting is poor, and because of the new house, the whole room is very damp.

after living for a period of time, the wall and skin of the balcony fell off more seriously.

I changed my job at that time, and my commuting time was too long, so I wanted to change my house.

I had a disagreement with the landlord when I checked out.

the landlord said that no matter it was caused by man-made damage or environmental factors, the house was intact before I moved in, and it was my responsibility for the damage when I moved out.

the landlord offered two solutions: one is to deduct half of my deposit and she will find someone to paint it herself; the other is not to deduct the rent, but I have to restore the wall myself.

I was so angry that I argued with the landlord for reason. as a result, the landlord was even angrier than me, refused to communicate with me and slammed the door on the grounds that the rental contract had not yet expired.

later, it was stiffAfter holding it for a few days, I really dislike the long commuting time and waste too much time.

therefore, I consulted my friend who studied law, and my friend said that he could help me with the lawsuit, and it was a sure win.

that night, I talked to my father on the phone and talked about it.

my father criticized me and said that you are reasonable and that you can win a lawsuit, but it takes a lot of time, and it is not better for you to spend your time working.

later, I took my father's advice and asked the landlord to deduct half of the rent and moved out smoothly.

although I am a little angry, in hindsight, this is the wisest thing to do.

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my landlord is idle all day, she has plenty of time to spend, and I am as tired as a dog at work every day.

there is a "law of dissipation", which says: "the dissipation rate of a fight is determined by the time consumption of both sides. In other words, the final outcome of a fight often depends on who has more time and energy. "

what idle people do not lack is time, and they have plenty of time and energy to spend with you.

Zhou Guoping once wrote an article to the effect that successful people will accept it in front of idle people.

it's not that successful people are weak and incompetent, but because their time is valuable.

Don't mess with people who are too idle. Life is expensive, and your time should be left for more important people and things.

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"Sheepskin Scroll" reads: "people are really busy, there are not too many complex emotions at all; people are too idle to take trifles seriously."

never mess with people who are too idle, and don't waste your life on useless things.

all you have to do is keep yourself busy and stand in a higher position so that idle people can't reach you at all.