Goodbye 2020, Hello 2021: may there be no time to look back and spend the rest of your life affectionately

the magical 2020 is finally coming to an end.

looking back on this year, we have experienced too much, including the outbreak of the epidemic, the Australian fire, the breakout of US stocks, the death of Kobe Bryant, and the postponement of the college entrance examination.

this year, there are bitterness, frustration and pain.

this year is destined to go down in history.

when bidding farewell to the New year and welcoming the New year, remember to say hard work to yourself and say goodbye to time: 2020, goodbye; 2021, hello.

01

to yourself: living well is more important than anything else.

make it through 2020, be sure to give yourself a like.

living in itself is a kind of luck.

at the beginning of the year, we set ourselves small goals, looking forward to a promotion, a raise, a house and a car, but the sudden epidemic disrupted people's pace of life.

when we have to stay at home, our desires diminish day by day, and we immediately feel that as long as we are in good health, it is a great happiness.

if the money is gone, you can earn it back; if you lose your job, you can find another job; but once you lose your health, everything goes back to zero.

in life, it is better to have no disease and no disaster, even if you have a lot of money.

We don't need that much. We just sacrifice our health to chase things outside our bodies.

as Zhou Guoping wrote:

A complete life, you don't need to wear gold and silver, you don't need to eat and drink extravagantly, and you don't need blessings, as long as you live every day with peace of mind, it's enough.

there is only one life. Loving yourself is the beginning of a lifetime romance.

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in the new year, we should all be nice to ourselves, eat well, sleep well, exercise well, and live every day of our life as if it were our last.

02

to parents: you grow up with me, I grow old with you

We are all used to being polite to strangers, but inadvertently criticize our parents.

being kind to your parents is the rarest accomplishment for a person.

We grow up day by day, and our parents get older day by day.

when we were young, our parents grew up with us and patiently taught us to eat and write.

now that they are old, it is our turn to protect them.

chatting with parents and teaching parents to use smartphones, these seemingly trivial things are the source of parents' happiness.

Unfortunately, under the pretext of being busy with work, it is difficult for us to stop hurrying to accompany them, or we lose our temper and lose our temper without saying a few words.

and parents are also very "sensible". They don't want to cause trouble to their children. they always swallow bitterness alone and say "nothing" with a smile.

there is a saying in the Book of songs: "Father gives birth to me, mother bows me." If you want to repay your kindness, Haotian turns a deaf ear to it. "

it is the most painful thing in life for a child to be raised but not to be kissed.

parents are here, but there is still a place in life. When parents go, life is only on the way home.

We always think that the future will be long, but we don't know which comes first, tomorrow or accident.

while your parents are not old, treat them gently and give them enough company so that they will not have regrets.

03

to your lover: fortunately, we met you and spent the rest of our lives with you

when we were young, we all longed for vigorous love and shared the prosperity of the world;

when we grew up, we found that plain and light was true, and love was finally wrapped in firewood, rice, oil and salt.

earthly love, with a different flavor.

someone asks you that porridge is warm, and someone shares dusk with you. The smell of fireworks around you may not be as good as the sun, moon and stars in the distance.

there is a line in the movie Moulin Rouge:

in the vast sea of people, not earlier, not a step too late, fortunately to meet you, this in itself is a miracle.

however, it is inevitable that two people will have differences and disputes in the process of running-in.

between lovers, you can quarrel, but don't let your emotions spend the night.

True love is not maintained by one person alone, but by two people working together.

this love, the test of winning time, can withstand the pain of parting and the agony of missing.

as long as you are accompanied by a loved one, no matter how heavy the storm is, you can share it. No matter how difficult the road of life is, you can go on firmly.

May we help each other with our loved ones for the rest of our lives.

04

to friends: it's very kind of you to accompany me for many years.

in this world, no one is an island, and no one needs friends.

however, as we get older, we suddenly find that many of our friends have become separated unwittingly.

gathering, dispersion and separation is the norm in life, and it is useless to force people to stay for those who are leaving.

We will eventually embark on our own journey, so there is no need to be sentimental about it.

and those who stay are true friends.

if you don't have many friends, it's good to be sincere.

A good friendship does not necessarily drink, but ta will quietly give you a hand when you are down.

A good friendship does not necessarily get along with each other day and night, but ta keeps you in mind and thinks about you all the time.

A good friendship is neither estranged by distance nor split by interests.

although we don't usually get in touch with each other, once we meet, we have a lot to say.

as Sanmao said:

from strangers to encounters, from encounters to familiarity, from familiarity to friendship, every friendship is irreplaceable.

05

cause suffering: good and bad things become a thing of the past.

everything has a gap, and that's where the light comes in.

if 2020 is not satisfactory, it will eventually become a thing of the past.

everything in the past is a preface.

whether it's good or bad, it's a unique experience in our lives.

We should learn to enjoy ourselves in a bad life and turn the sour lemons that life gives us into sweet lemon juice.

writer Margaret Mitchell wrote in gone with the Wind:

in the adult world, who is not crying, strong, collapsing and moving forward at the same time.

No matter how desolate the status quo is, you have to believe that all that is lost will come back in another way.

there is a long way to go. We must live like buckwheat and stand proudly after the wind and frost.

in the face of the unknown, we should put aside our sadness and fear and take it easy in our hearts.

06

May all the mountains and rivers be safe in the new year.

years are turbulent and ruthless, and fate goes up and down.

many people are looking forward to the difficult 2020 to pass quickly and welcome a better 2021.

but will the future be better? No one knows the answer.

as Gide wrote in Food on Earth:

but in any case, every day in the future is new and worth looking forward to.

what has happened in the past is a foregone conclusion;

what has not happened in the future can be changed.

if you are fully committed in every moment, it will naturally give back to you in the future.

2021, we should love ourselves well and live full of vitality every day;

2021, we should patiently accompany our parents and talk with them kindly;

2021, we should gently take care of our loved ones and stop being cold because of trifles;

2021, we should cherish our friends around us and become the light of each other's lives.

May the mountains and rivers be safe and safe in 2021.

in 2021, we swagger together and forge ahead.