Smart women don't fight for men for the rest of their lives, but spell these three things.

I have heard such a saying: "if a woman does a good job, it is better to marry well."

it is undeniable that marriage is a major event in life and will certainly have a deep or shallow impact on our lives.

but this choice of completely leaving one's own destiny to others will unwittingly add many unknown risks to one's own path.

as a woman, you should know that no one is who will always rely on.

relying on others to drag you forward, you can't walk steadily on your own after all. If one day he turns around and leaves, there is no guarantee that he will not fall black and blue.

Please remember that it is not men who should be spelled, but these three things that women should spell for the rest of their lives.

01

A healthy body

British writer Francis Bacon said: "A healthy body is the living room of the soul, and a sick body is the solitary room of the soul."

Health is a unique treasure for everyone, but it is also the most likely to be ignored.

when people reach middle age, their physical fitness is not as good as before, especially women, will gradually show a lot of problems.

when I was young, I always stayed up late, ate and drank too much, because I was lazy and did not exercise.

but every time you steal laziness is recorded by fate, and then I don't know one day, I will make it clear to you.

Professor Yu Juan of Fudan, who was diagnosed with cancer at the age of 31, began to reflect on her former way of life.

in addition to irregular diet and rest, but also in study and work like a desperate Saburo, not willing to leave themselves a bit of breathing room.

in order to do well in the exam, she can read 21 hours a day;

when she sees all kinds of certificates, she wants to take one, and every surprise before the exam hurts her energy.

she also set herself the goal of completing two degrees in three years, so that she can travel day and night.

when Yu Juan was ill, Yu Juan wrote the confession book "unfinished in this Life", in which there was a passage:

when I was ill, I knew that people should base their happiness on sustainable long-term life goals, instead of just going to see short-term fame, wealth and power.

through life and death, you will feel that the feelings of fame, wealth and power are all nothingness. To put it bluntly, these are nothing more than other people's after-dinner conversation.

maybe you have a lot of dreams to realize, but it's all based on having a good body.

if you want to enjoy the beauty of the mountain, you must first make sure that you have the strength to climb to the top.

starting from today, be more self-disciplined, less indulgent, responsible for yourself and reassuring to your family.

Don't wait for the red light to realize the value of health.

02

Independent personality

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some people say that the most poisonous love word in the world is "I raise you".

when I was young, I always felt that this was a beautiful oath worth looking forward to all my life.

it wasn't until half of my life that I found that no one could be a safe haven for anyone. You must learn to hold your own umbrella so as not to get caught in the torrential rain.

in the TV series "the first half of my Life", Luo Zijun completely gave up his job and became a full-time wife at home because he believed her husband's promise.

but as soon as the marriage changed, her husband Chen Junsheng filed for divorce, and she left nothing but an injury.

the same plot appears in "only 30" is completely different. The female host Gu Jia told her cheating husband about the divorce scene, which made the audience applaud.

the difference probably lies in whether women are caught up in trivial life and gradually give up on themselves.

if you are confined to a two-foot stove and only remember to revolve around others, you will gradually forget to pursue who you are, and it will be difficult to get out of the sky.

but if you keep walking along the way, there's nothing to be afraid of.

because you have seen the hot sun in the afternoon and the sudden rainstorm at night. Because I know how good I am, I am not afraid of how difficult the road ahead is.

go for what you want. After the hardship of climbing, you will know how beautiful the scenery is.

along the way, you can expect someone to walk all the way, but don't expect him to drag you all the way. In case it takes a long time, both of them will be tired.

if one day the hands holding you are suddenly removed, there is no guarantee that you will not fall to the ground like a toddler.

the road must be steady by oneself, and the money must be earned by oneself.

in the days to come, may you be able to hold lights in the dark, carry umbrellas in rain, and become more and more independent through the vicissitudes of life.