The best life for the rest of life: clean circle, regular life, people you like.

Zhou Guoping said:

A person can live in many ways in his life.

once upon a time I dreamed of traveling all over the world and enjoying all the fame and beauty in the world.

it took me half a lifetime to understand that the best life for the rest of my life is:

A clean circle, a regular life, and a loved one.

01

Clean Circle

have you ever had such a moment in the past:

when you were chatting at the wine table, you could go home and lie on the couch feeling inexplicably empty.

you are depressed and rummaged through your address book, but you can't find anyone you can talk to.

when you are in trouble, you want to ask for help, but very few people are really willing to help.

people are always inseparable from the word "circle" when they live.

once upon a time, he blindly expanded his circle and took part in every game. When he met a peer boss, he had to add Wechat.

it wasn't until the complex relationships began to consume us that we finally realized that the larger the circle, the more upset we were. Although the circle is small, it is good to be clean.

Tony Leung's circle has always been very small.

every time someone asks out after filming, he doesn't take part in it.

even if invited again and again, he was a disappointment: "No, you play, I'll go home."

We always thought he was aloof, but in fact, he left all his warmth to his two or three bosom friends.

as he said, "Friends should keep things simple."

the simpler the circle, the less bother it is to operate; the cleaner the circle, the more helpful it is at the critical moment.

the true friend never lies in "whether there are many", but in "good or bad".

in this life, there is no need to invite too many people into life.

from now on, form the good habit of cleaning up circles regularly.

add people who are no longer contacted on Wechat and delete them decisively; meaningless group chats will be withdrawn immediately.

there is no need to go to hypocritical entertainment; a meaningless wine bureau can be pushed as long as it can.

as the saying goes: life, if you want to make yourself comfortable, you have to live among people who understand you.

May you see everything you love for the rest of your life.

02

regular life

Mo Yan has an interesting explanation for the word "I":

if the word "I" is skimmed, it is the word "looking for".

what exactly is that prime?

businessmen say money, politicians say power, stars say fame, soldiers say honor, students say yes.

finally, life tells me that it is healthy.

the rest of my life is not long, the highest way to show off wealth is not wealth, but good health.

A few days ago, I saw the "brain Infarction Diary" shared by Douban netizen @ Li Xiaotiezhu.

the moment she came out of the emergency room and got the report form, the doctor shook his head: "how young, just."

having seen the whole course of Xiao Li's illness, I knew that the crisis had already lurked in her daily life.

since childhood, Xiao Li has a heavy taste, likes to eat meat, and her parents cook with a lot of oil and salt, which leads to her high cholesterol.

often stay up late, irregular work and rest make her depressed and sleepy during the day.

fortunately, Xiao Li was having an examination in the hospital when he finally fainted.

in his diary, Xiao Li wrote this sentence:

the biggest illusion in the first half of life is that he always thinks that youth is capital.

when the body turns on the red light in an all-round way, we know that the last thing we should overdraft in this life is health.

often envy people who are energetic and energetic in everything they do, making life richer and richer.

think about it, all the energy and courage actually come from a regular life.

writer Matsuura Mitaro wrote in "Integrity":

A regular life not only brings him a strong body, but also allows him to quickly adjust his state of mind and start anew when he is at a low ebb.

Life is like this. Go to bed early, get up early and nourish your spirit. Nothing is insurmountable.

Please remember the details of returning to life and take care of yourself in the coming days.

nothing, go to bed early, exercise more when you have time, have a good meal, and combine work with rest.

change all bad habits and stay away from all unhealthy things.

when you treat yourself gently, life is clear and everything is lovely.

03

the one you like

there is a sentence in the novel the elegance of the hedgehog:

move forward with the person you like, with the same frequency and pace, singing and laughing all the way.

the couple Nan Li and Xia Junshan are envied by everyone in the recent hit drama "Xiao Shude".

compared with Yan Peng's sweet words to his wife Tian Yulan, Xia Junshan supported his wife Nan Li with practical actions.

at the first family reunion, Nan Li came home from a quarrel with her father. Xia Junshan first let her vent her anger, then chatted to help her untie her heart knot, and finally did not forget to turn around and praise her wife.

later, Nanli's mother accidentally hurt her waist, and Nanli often couldn't get away from her work during the day.

Xia Junshan didn't say a word, took the initiative to pick up and pick up the children, and took the time to come back to help take care of his mother-in-law during work.

in the evening, when the children are asleep, he naturally takes over the washing basin in his wife's hands, washing clothes while providing psychological counseling to his wife.

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during that time, Xia Junshan was in charge of tutoring the children because the childrenHis education lost his temper in a hurry.

late at night, Xia Junshan sat in the living room, anxious and remorseful.

at this time, Nanli comforted him in turn.

the understanding and mutual assistance between husband and wife finally cured the harm caused by the original family to Nanli.

in this life, you will be most lucky to have someone you like.

someone shared the wine with you, and someone told you it was late at night. Some people know that you are cold and warm, and someone will accompany you for the rest of your life.

others will only appreciate your goodness, but they not only understand the pain in your heart, but also accept your embarrassment.

the road of life is long. If you are lucky enough to meet the right person with the same frequency, you must cherish it.

I agree with

very much: as long as you work hard and enjoy a good life, you and I can both get it.

for the rest of my life, live a good life, meet slowly, do not owe others, live up to yourself.