The root cause of people's unhappiness: lack of wisdom
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if one is unhappy, there is only one reason: the IQ is not high enough.
the greatest evil of a person is lack of cognition, and the greatest pain of a person is the mismatch between desire and cognition.
if a person has enough IQ and reaches a certain level of cognition, he must be a free, easy and comfortable person.
Life is a spiritual practice, practicing one's own cognition and breaking the ego.
therefore, staying happy is not a gift, but an ability, a calm and calm after penetrating the truth, laws, and nature of the world.
how many of the following proverbs about life do you know and how many are you practicing?
01
Happiness is the advanced enjoyment of the soul
different people have different understandings of happiness.
but it is undeniable that the prosperity of one's heart and spirit is the closest to the perfection of life.
in the limited survival time, I have a good state, have some interests and hobbies, take every day seriously, do every little thing well, learn to care about and understand everyone around me, and appreciate every scenery by the side of the road attentively. In fact, it is the closest distance to happiness.
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everyone's happiness is in their own hands and has nothing to do with others.
if you go your own way, cross your own bridge, and maintain a quiet and indifferent state of mind, you will be able to feel happy everywhere.
02
as long as firewood is added, the water will always boil
. Sometimes, we often wonder why we didn't start to learn a skill ten or twenty years ago, but regret it when we needed it many years later, feeling that it was too late.
in fact, there is no such thing as "it's too late". When to start is the best time.
as the saying goes:
by the same token, the best time to start doing something is not only years ago, but now. I can't go back many years ago, and all I can grasp is the present.
what you think is too late, may be the best place to start. Start now, take a road in time, it's really not too late!
03
flowers bloom from beauty.
Huang Yongyu said:
he was never bound by fame, lived a real and interesting life, and often humorously called himself an old Diao min in Xiangxi.
you think the master should sit upright and accept people's worship, but he said, "you are all too serious, so I have no choice but to be indecent."
you think you should spend the rest of your life at the age of 90, recalling the past, he went to build a house, raise a big dog, drive a red sports car, and appeared on the cover of "Mr. Fashion" all the way.
the man who has been thinking about it for nearly a hundred years has taught us a simple and simple truth: people are the strongest when they live out of themselves.
now that you've tried what you should, enjoy what you deserve.
others will quit eventually. Don't make others happy and lose yourself.
04
smile,
is a gift to others, wealth to yourself
Life is only 30,000 days, who does not cherish joys and sorrows. In life, who does not have worries and worries, who has not experienced setbacks and ups and downs?
people who love to laugh do not have everything going well in life, but they understand that it is never depression that defeats suffering, optimism and smile.
smiling is actually a kind of thinking and a kind of courage to face the predicament of life.
your smile is the most healing power, better than the most beautiful scenery in the world.
Life is short. Remember to turn happiness into a habit, whether in prosperity or adversity.
if life is difficult, then I wish you happiness.
05
can be big and small, everything
can be released
life
life will inevitably encounter difficulties and setbacks, if blindly argue, often full of grievances, full of complaints, and finally lead to the intensification of contradictions, the loss outweighs the gain.
sometimes, if you lower your posture and slow down your emotions, you can solve the problem better.
Zeng Guofan once said in his family motto: "do not compete with others for interests, but only with yourself for character."
those who strive for strength seem to win the present, but they are easy to lose;
those who give in seem to suffer from compromise, but they are easy to win recognition.
people who dare to "recognize pussy" are never easy.