When people reach middle age, these people don't have to get in touch with each other. It's pointless.

Life is like a dream, everything is like smoke. Unwittingly, people have reached middle age.

after going through the wind and rain, reading the vicissitudes of life, I gradually understand that it is the right way in the world not to live for others and to love myself well.

Liang Shiqiu said:

the rest of my life is very expensive. Please put aside your "generosity" and stop wasting time on people and things that are not worth it. Only in this way can you live in peace and not be afraid of desolation.

especially the following people, no matter how many contacts, there is no point, it is better to let go and be happy.

01

Friends who come and go

there used to be a topic on Weibo: "do you think people with high incomes should pay the bill?"

there is a comment that I think deeply:

No matter love or friendship, the most taboo is to give unilaterally. I dig my heart out for you, you do everything to me, I am passionate about you, and you are indifferent to me.

this unequal relationship will not last long after all.

Cai Kangyong said:

"Human feelings are not gold jewelry, and the so-called human feelings will not arise if they are locked in a safe."

coming and going is called human favor. "

people are actually mutual.

especially as a friend, I am seven percent kind to you, you return my feelings, come and go, trouble each other, the friendship between each other can become deeper and deeper.

otherwise, if you don't come and go, you will be asked for and consumed all the time, and your heart will gradually get cold.

since this kind of friend is not cherished, it is better to let go as soon as possible and set yourself free, which is the fulfillment of the rest of your life.

02

look down on your relatives

some people say:

in real life, there is a kind of relative who seems to smile at you on the surface, but looks down on you behind your back.

when you are used, you are courteous in every way, and love to ignore you when you are useless;

when you have something to do, you smile, and when you have nothing to do, you speak sarcastically;

on the surface, you are polite and polite, secretly, and maliciously slanderous.

for such relatives who look down on you in their bones, it's better to stay away as soon as possible.

the famous actor Chen Daoming once said:

when people get along with others, only by respecting each other can they go further and further.

if you don't understand this truth, don't consume yourself in the so-called "worldly sophistication" even in the face of relatives.

the only way to avoid harm is to recognize the reality and not to please or curry favor.

03

students who have no friendship

no matter who they are with, they often meet each other in order to maintain their feelings.

otherwise, even a good relationship will cool down if you don't care if you haven't been in touch for a long time.

just like the students who used to study hard together, they naturally had strong feelings when they saw each other every day, but now they no longer intersect and gradually move away.

it turns out that people will change, and feelings will be far away.

No one will stay where they are all the time, especially when they reach middle age and have their own lives and pressures. If they don't get in touch with each other for too long, they will gradually forget.

it has been said that

separation is inevitable, though helpless.

in the face of past feelings and distant memories, the best way is:

Wanna shop a trendy dresses for teenage girls and display your unique femininity ? Quit searching from expensive retailers!

keep your heart and meet each other;

I hope you are well and life goes on.

everyone's life is a sandy city, time is eroding all buildings, and what is gone is gone, and it doesn't help to look back step by step.

only by moving forward calmly can life be warm and cherished.

04

ambiguous members of the opposite sex

"ambiguity makes people feel aggrieved, and there is no evidence of love. When to move forward and when to give up, I don't even have the courage to hug. I can only accompany you here.

after all, there are some things you can't do, more than friendship than love. "

ambiguous, is a self-deceiving adult game.

deceive you to get short-term happiness, but also let you into the endless abyss.

especially when people reach middle age, marriage is dull and life is boring, but that is the normal state of life, which is the way life is.

Don't go to a so-called "soul mate" just because you can't stand loneliness and emptiness.

once you become addicted, you either indulge in it, or fall into it, and end up ruining the rest of your life.

just as a saying goes:

ambiguity is beautiful, but marriage is not easy. If you don't want to fall apart for the rest of your life, don't get in touch with ambiguous members of the opposite sex.

it makes no sense except to hurt your partner.

05

over the years, flowers are still in bloom, but people are different.

in the long world of mortals, we can't control who goes far and who stays. The only thing we can do is to cherish the present after a thousand sails have passed.

those things that are meaningless are no longer entangled, and those who are not worth it let go.

as said on the Internet:

Flowers fall, Yun Juan Yun Shu, do not be tired for the world, do not worry about things, life is naturally peaceful and beautiful.